1. Remember that your story is still in process. We cannot stress enough the importance of watching your thoughts, especially when it comes to your relationship and the differences between you and your partner. Remind yourself that nothing is a 100% guaranteed. The way you think about, talk to and act with your partner is what will guide the two of you to happiness (or disappointment and breakup).

2. Adopt an attitude of respect. Being respectful of your partner may seem like a no-brainer suggestion, but when differences arise that don't make sense to you or that feel like a challenge to the way you "do" things, it gets more complicated. Make it your intention to always be kind and respectful, even when you two don't agree.

3. Stay curious. Curiosity can be your most powerful tool when dealing with a difference that's upsetting or stressful. Keep telling yourself that trying to understand isn't "giving in," and keep asking questions so that you truly can get a clear and accurate sense of where your partner is coming from. A great phrase we use in our own relationship is, "Please tell me more."

4. Nurture what's unique about you. Know that creating a happy and connected relationship when there's an age gap isn't about giving up your opinions, values or what's most important to you. There's room for you to be authentically who you are and to pursue your interests and personal passions, while also contributing to an amazing connection with your partner.

Find reasons to celebrate the wonderful blend of differences and similarities (and everything else in between) in your relationship.