Singles, singles and more Muslim singles... There are plenty of them, in all shapes, sizes, races and with various qualifications. Yet, there does not seem to be to be one singleton sparking enough interest to say 'let's take this further and go for a coffee? ' Therefore what's going wrong at these marriage events? Exactly how do single Muslims get married these days?

Typically the hush voices and the deafening awkwardness is inevitable as the singles wait around for the event to start.

I watch them tiresomely introduce themselves repeatedly. I see some public losing interest, playing on their phone or leaping onto their social press lives. I even witness many bromances and womances blossoming right before my eyes... huh?

Eventually when the intros are over, alleviation... Phew! Then the disappointment hits. Why? Because will be certainly nobody you want approach! You scroll down the set of names and still nobody captures your interests or is remotely like the person you want to marry! You get to the end of the list and start again hoping you overlooked someone, you realise you haven't and the stifled despair is clear to see... argh!

50 percent the folks you've met you don't even remember, many people turned up late and missed the intros altogether! Clearly creating a good first impression isn't important when you are trying to meet your true love!

After much consideration and deliberation the singles send some demands or accept 'requests to meet' for a one-to-one conversation.

These one-to-one discussions can make you speechless at the lack of 'conversation'! At the other conclusion of the spectrum, extraordinarily some singles are ready to drop their lives, marry and move in along with you tomorrow! It makes you wonder, what on earth just happened?!

Lonely hearts walk away from these one-to-ones feeling completely underwhelmed. The brothers talk at the sisters, hoping something someone said would hook up with them. While the sisters' preferred approach is a inhospitable and uncensored interrogation of the brothers' past associations and haraam (prohibited) activities... Awkward much!

Despite adding yourself through all of that and with little luck in meeting someone suitable, how do public get married these days... or is it that they just don't?!

Some have been trying to get married for many years. They attend marriage events and use online marriage websites yet they're still struggling to find 'the one'. There is a saying they're okay with it but their feeling of eliminate is palpable.

The brothers either don't know very well what they want or they presume the sisters are too fussy. Whereas the sisters think the brothers are immature, untrustworthy and irresponsible... ouch!

Singles with no 'requests to meet' make a quick exit hoping no person notices. While some cling on to hope that someone will speak to them at some point.

We watch the event organisers eager to see the singles find marriage, seek out singles and personally set up a 'request to meet' with other singles. However it takes some coaxing, cajoling and an enormous scrap of luck to make this happen. [url=http://www.muslimmarriageevents.info]Muslim marriage events[/url]

Sadly sometimes there are also after-effects of these occasions... There are some siblings who can't take no for an answer and think following a individual Muslimah (Muslim woman) to the bus stop or tracking her down on social media is an excellent move... Stalker much!!

It simply leaves me with problem: how many brothers and siblings exchange numbers (not including bromances or womances) and actually take the next thing to meet again?

So where does it leave these singles... Do Muslim lonely hearts learn how to 'date' halal? Are they at these occasions because they wish to be there? Or could it be because their siblings, friends and friends are getting married and they feel left right behind!

These marriage events are a great resource for conference other singles. They've effectively paired thousands of couples. But are singles taking full good thing about them?

Are the singles searching for a ignite or even an inkling of one? Is the fact that requesting for too much as a first meeting? Thus does that then imply love at first view is out of the question?