Un-Ideal Parenting: Coparenting with Narcissist Season 2
Today's Topic: Coparenting with the Narcissist
Un-deal Parenting Season 2

Now that you've been in a couple of relationships: and post-judged your parents, you've probably realized that everyone has flaws. People are haughty, overbearing and given certain situations downright cruel. Individuals may have certain advantages over most others and get there way more than most. Not to mention people are competitive, don't play fair, lack empathy and manipulate in certain situations. And of course; no one thinks they are dating a narcissist and actually if it's at the beginning of a relationship. Here's the truth! Diagnosable narcissists are very rare, and the reason is because they're good at what they do. They're good at chameleon, vengeance and DARVO.

And DARVO is just an acronym that simply means "Denial of Aggression and Victim-Aggressor Exchange." I lived with it for a very long time, and I think many of you know my story. You'll find that in today's modern society, many people have only mild to moderate mental health issues that go undiagnosed. Some of these things are part of life. Some things are part of the experience. And some things have to do with your origins - how you were raised, who you grew up with. In retrospect, I don't want to play the game that there's a perfect, cured idealist out there. It doesn't exist. We want to address the pitfalls of people who intentionally try to manipulate you into relationships; perpetrators who continue to harm you decades later. We address if you've been in a relationship long enough and know exactly when you're being financially, mentally, physically abused, or if you haven't yet identified.

What happens in the workplace with relationships? What happens in social relationships and the pecking order of popularity? And what happens in co-parenting relationships when one party isn't getting there way? We want to address common sense manipulation and deviant manipulation; we're going to identify strategies. Furthermore, let's talk about how you can stand up to these DARVOs. These people. These predators who own up to their wrongdoings and continue to do so. People whose only purpose is to continue their unacceptable antics that make you feel unsafe. And manipulators - whether diagnosed as narcissism or not- use DARVO to change the psychological order of things. That's what we're talking about, so stay tuned for the next episode. You won't regret it. And you shouldn't date to find out if you're dating a narcissist. It doesn't work that way. Diagnosable nurses are very rare, and the reason is because they're good at what they do, they're good at chameleons, they're good at revenge, they're good at DARVO.

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